A pair of tired legs entered its home after a long day's workload midst the filthy society's battle-yard. A pair of beautiful lips greeted it with shades of teeth playing hide and seek beneath it. The soul bearing those legs turned alive with the sight of his queen. The hopeless heartbeat jumped its rate proportionally as the smile of his lady grew. Eyes which always wanted to switch off a minute ago, never wanted to anymore. Love filled the air. Marriage was bliss. Rather, it always is.
The pleasures in a relationship are in-numerous. Each soul seeks its companion, marriage is its ultimate victory. I have always wondered why is the society so negative about marriage. Isn't marriage the greatest of all relationships that exist?
We share life with no body else on earth but our better halves. Life is different for different individuals. It is the most difficult thing to share. Her interests become his' and his' become hers. That is the first time one begins to live not for oneself but for another soul. That is on which love builds a concrete platform. When this basement is well-laid, no force on Earth can dare break it.
The society's fears of marriage only lingers when the soul's are disconnected. When life is shared, the two entities become one. Do the evils of individuality, like ego, dominance and arrogance, even have a chance to show-up then? Marriage can only be bliss.
However, life being the most difficult thing to share, to be able to achieve it needs the quality called 'acceptance' from both the parties of marriage. People are what their experiences shape them to be. No two people have the same experiences in life. Even if they do, perceptions of those experiences would surely differ. So how does one blur the line of individuality to succeed in marriage and reap its rewards of happiness? Just the thought that one's interests aren't as important as their partners' would do. Let me emphasize again, this thought must be sowed on the minds of BOTH the parties concerned in the relationship. Just one way traffic would only have an adverse effect. If this thought is ensured, marriage surely is blissful.
I have always had the habit of dedicating each of my blogs to the people who inspired me to write each of it. In that case, I should have dedicated this to my to-be wife. But, having myself to dedicate for her, I thought this blog can only be a show-case for our relationship to-be. I am sure, this blog will show us the way forward whenever the individuality line shows-up in our relationship. So will it, for all of you.
WISHING U ALL A HAPPY MARRIAGE.
cheers,
nagappstheblogger
The pleasures in a relationship are in-numerous. Each soul seeks its companion, marriage is its ultimate victory. I have always wondered why is the society so negative about marriage. Isn't marriage the greatest of all relationships that exist?
We share life with no body else on earth but our better halves. Life is different for different individuals. It is the most difficult thing to share. Her interests become his' and his' become hers. That is the first time one begins to live not for oneself but for another soul. That is on which love builds a concrete platform. When this basement is well-laid, no force on Earth can dare break it.
The society's fears of marriage only lingers when the soul's are disconnected. When life is shared, the two entities become one. Do the evils of individuality, like ego, dominance and arrogance, even have a chance to show-up then? Marriage can only be bliss.
However, life being the most difficult thing to share, to be able to achieve it needs the quality called 'acceptance' from both the parties of marriage. People are what their experiences shape them to be. No two people have the same experiences in life. Even if they do, perceptions of those experiences would surely differ. So how does one blur the line of individuality to succeed in marriage and reap its rewards of happiness? Just the thought that one's interests aren't as important as their partners' would do. Let me emphasize again, this thought must be sowed on the minds of BOTH the parties concerned in the relationship. Just one way traffic would only have an adverse effect. If this thought is ensured, marriage surely is blissful.
I have always had the habit of dedicating each of my blogs to the people who inspired me to write each of it. In that case, I should have dedicated this to my to-be wife. But, having myself to dedicate for her, I thought this blog can only be a show-case for our relationship to-be. I am sure, this blog will show us the way forward whenever the individuality line shows-up in our relationship. So will it, for all of you.
WISHING U ALL A HAPPY MARRIAGE.
cheers,
nagappstheblogger
I think you are all set to enter into marriage life..
ReplyDeleteGood work and congrats..
a good one though....but if everyone understand this there will be no divorces isn't it
ReplyDeletemachi semma da.......last para was reaaaaaaaaal awesome!!!send tis link to your to-be wife(after engagement or watever)....sandgosha paduva :)
ReplyDeleteawwwwwww....so sweet ...i luvvvv this blog...nd yea its perfect:):)...get married soon..lol wanna see u in tht weddin bliss:):)
ReplyDeleteIts nice.Its first time i read your blog.But i like to say that you can still improve the feel in the story. Esp the paragraph at the end.Initially the first three write-up was imposing. Esp the lines "Her interests become his' and his' become hers" really i had a fondle the way you start.Any how Keep posting periodically.I am waiting for the piece of write-up on the title LOVE.
ReplyDeletePoetic first para. could've been a verse itself.
ReplyDeleteyou must know, there are people who dont believe in relationships, who beleive only in their personal upbringing of their own being alone.
so when they get married, guess what happens ?? They break up. sooner or later it will be the outcome. And this is what most of the divorce cases' basic cause.
of course pleasures are innumerous in it, if only one of the two does your wel-said acceptance. that's how it shall be interpreted.
Your intuition and outlook on society and life are something not to be repressed. welcome them always.
ppl are what their experiences.. indeed!!
As a whole, the blog is theoretically fine.
well, practically ?? very subjective.
one thing is evident. Mrs. vignesh will be proud of her husband !!
Gud one esp the first para :) marriage truly is bliss, it's just the individuals who kill the fun in it. Nothing's perfect when two like ppl get along or when the attempt to make up for their differences.
ReplyDeleteI'm reminded of 2 works, the now so famous movie kadhalil sothapuvathu eppadi and the book Men are from mars and women are frm venus. Everyone has their differences, we just need to accept tht for experiencing a blissful marriage :)